Is there JEALOUSY between your Canine Kids?

By Brett Titus
S.W.A.T / K-9 Handler & Trainer
Denver Police Department

Jealousy! One of the worst emotions for us to deal with; it can cause grief for everyone involved. No matter who we have all seen dogs become jealous, maybe not in the same way we that we humans show it, but some of the actions and results are very familiar.

The most common times I’ve seen what we would call jealousy in dogs is during displays of affection. When one dog is across the room sound asleep and you begin to pet the other, in the blink of an eye, both are on you competing for your attention. I find this to be a warm feeling and don't mind it a bit. It only presents a problem if they become aggressive. Watch for the warning signs. The most obvious is if one dog physically moves into the other dog’s space; in many cases this comes with a warning such as a growl. One way to prevent the situation from reaching this level is to give equal attention. Create a habit of petting a dog with each hand, keeping them on opposite sides of you. If you plan on giving affection to one dog, plan on splitting it between two. It's a natural reaction for your dog to want your attention. Make equal time for all of your dogs and they shouldn't feel the need to fight for it.

Feeding time or sharing treats is also a cause for jealousy. I have always preferred to feed in completely separate areas. This assures that each dog gets their proper amounts and is not bullied off the bowl—I have seen many fights started over a bowl of food. It also keeps them from wondering if the other dog has something better, avoiding jealousy issues. Treats should be given directly to your dogs—don't just toss them in their direction and leave it to them to figure out who gets what. When treats are given directly, still remember to give them distance so there is no confusion. Equal amounts are important as well, but don’t distribute too many—we don't want fat, jealous dogs.

Space can be another jealousy factor. Who gets which bed may be an issue of location or comfort—one bed may be closer to yours than the other or it may be softer. The use of an actual bed, crate or sleeping space is important. In cases like this, try to make sleeping arrangements as equal as you can. Be consistent on who is placed in which bed or area. Don't alternate the sleeping spots. This will help the dogs to understand what place is theirs and to stay out of the other dog’s area. If possible, it may help to place each dog on either side of the bed. This can also deter the 3 a.m. playtime between the dogs. No matter how cute, it's no fun for us.

Finally, toys can be an issue. When playing, have a toy for each dog. Throw the toys in opposite directions. This eliminates the competition of who can get there faster. One dog may be slower and lose every time. This can become frustrating and lead to problems. If they get there at the same time, who knows how they may settle that. Most of our dogs are welladjusted to the pack and would never think to be jealous, but for others, it's our responsibility to alleviate as much jealousy as possible—love them lots, and equally.

About the author:

Brett is known Internationally for his training and handling skills. With over eleven years of professional experience training Police and S.W.A.T. K-9s, he has a vast background of accomplishments to his credit. Visit his Web site at: www.tacdogs.com.